Utah adoption agency fails to “get it” — and what a poor way to treat a father.

But the true gem is in the comments in the original article about the “adoptive” parents: Allowing them to keep this child is similar to allowing a bank robber to keep the money, because he’d developed an emotional attachment to it. Pretty much explains the statist point of view about our tax dollars.

The link to the exact quote. Contact info for the DI’s lawyer, if you want it.

H/T Karmaa

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December 5, 2012 11:30 am

the adopters were begging for donations for adoption fees and legal fees, tell me, someone, please, how the hell did they get to adopt the child if they couldn’t afford the fees up front?

or am i missing something?

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December 5, 2012 12:53 pm

As far as I’m concerned, the Bio-mother needs to be charged with human trafficking and the judge who approved the adoption needs to be disbarred. I don’t care if there is a marriage or not. If the biological mother and the adoption agency cannot prove that they made every reasonable effort to get the biological father to sign off on it, it shouldn’t happen. (Obvious exclusions in cases of rape and incest). And Fox messed up. They said she never met her father, seemingly siding w/adoptive parents, but she has met her father, twice.

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Karmaa
December 5, 2012 4:10 pm

There is a lot more to the story than the one-sided media feeds us. The adoptive family WAS told that the bio dad existed and could come back to haunt them. BUT they were also told (courtesy of the bio-mom’s lies) that he did not want the child, had abandoned them and was not providing support. The bio-mom gave the adoption agency an address in TX (though he lived in SC), so when dad didn’t respond, the agency used that as further proof that he indeed was abandoning the child. So, basically, everyone assumed that he was a d-bag, who decided to just walk away and not accept responsibility. That’s why the agency informed the adoptive parents that dad COULD show up later. They felt “safe” because the law says if he abandoned the child, the child can be adopted. The problem is that he DIDN’T abandon them, and he can prove it. He was paying rent and putting money in the joint bank account. The mom lied. There is no clear-cut answer here. The culprit is the mom. Period. Everyone else is kind of victims. The adoption agency didn’t really do anything wrong – they followed their policies, which… Read more »

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poppajoe49
December 5, 2012 7:51 pm

Kinda makes me glad I don’t have any kids. Sad, but glad.

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December 5, 2012 8:36 pm

I’m with you there, PJ. Except for the sad part.

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poppajoe49
December 6, 2012 5:55 am

Well, I am one of those guys that everyone says was meant to be a dad, I was looking forward to it. I was living with a girl once that just had a baby, and I relished the time spent with the baby. That is why I said sad.
I’m glad because I would have been crushed if something like this happened to me.

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