Belgian man shocked to learn wife of 19 years is [was] a man

Belgian man shocked to learn wife of 19 years is [was] a man. “‘I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman… [and] even during sex, I never noticed anything,’ said the 64 year-old man. The deception unraveled after the transsexual began frequenting nightclubs and getting emails from other men.” The truth will set you free, right Barry?

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  • I don't think he was unaware. I think he knew exactly what was going on, right up until the day things were made public -- and rather than deal with the public knowing about him being married to a trans, he decided to instead have the world think he was stupid. In that relationship, I'd have to say that he was the nutless one -- so far as commitment goes, "thpppt and he was gone" ranks pretty low.

  • This is like one of those Jerry Springer shows. I never could understand how Bobby Joe didn't know Lurelene was a man despite her deep voice and giant Adam's Apple. And penis.

    • Considering he dumped a real woman and essentially his kids for a fake ass woman and no kids to find he got his ass cheated on... me neither. I hope his first wife has an amazing life.

      • If they have a good doctor trannies can get a considerably deep uhm "thing" down there and if the trannies find men who aren't uhm... "long" and too uhm... "girthie" they can get away with it. This leads me to a question... first I feel bad for any man who didnt cheat on his wife that is a good man and truly married a tranny thinking she was a woman and has no desire to be with a man in any way and was completely deceived... that is just terrible, however I can understand how they can be deceived. My question is, is it possible for women to become men that they can completely deceive a woman? Because I got to be real this is seriously going to be a problem and I needs to know. I want a real man folks. I guess the answer is making sure to know the family and if the family just seems to be missing red flag?

      • I believe they manufacture an inlet on them. So he probably couldn't tell. All he could tell was that his new wife seemed to read his mind about what feels good... and seemed to know a lot about football.

        • I have a hard time believing that they can manufacture an inlet that looks anything like the real thing.

          • I don't agree with that. You maybe joking but I don't know if you are. I am not a car nor an object to be test driven. I have family, friends, people who knew me growing up, I have baby pictures and so on. It is man's responsibility to make sure to know me through my family and past which is open for him to review. Other than I am capable of having sex which every human being is, there is not much else that a man can learn about me if he "test drives" me. He I am sure "test drove" this "chick" and he still married her thinking she was a real woman. So again test driving does nothing. If a woman appears out of nowwhere has no family history has no pictures has no past I have to say that in many ways a man who marries her and then discovers she is a man really doesn't have much people to blame but himself even if he was a good person and he married herin good faith.

          • Sorry if I offended you KQ with the test drive remark. I just meant to inspect "it" . If you can't tell the real thing from a lab built model, you really shouldn't be married to a woman in the first place. Without getting into detail, you can make it look like a vajajay(sort of) but they can't fake plumbing that isn't there. All the plumbing....

          • LOL that goes back to what I was saying earlier that it is important to at least look at it and be sure things are happening down there the way they should.

          • Uhm... hello? Seriously? That was a serious question? You don't look at it? Wow... really? When I get married I can assure you that I will be studying his package with great detail, more than likely sketch it out or take pictures as the years go by to see any changes, first out of great curiosity, second to make sure that health wise everything is good down there and third to see what makes it tick which I am sure won't take much effort. I think that if men took the time to care to know more about what is going on down there for women it would make for a lot of happy wives out there.

          • You just made my day with that. When you get married, expect a box that holds a tape measure, plaster for casting, and a banana (for scale).

            :)

          • "What? That plaster cast of beautiful boobs on the wall? Over there? Cast from MY boobs? Oh, no. I would never do that. I bought that at an art show."

          • Plaster boobs when painted properly and colorfully will make a good addition to any modern art collection. Kimmy, don't let these single track guys get you down. You make that art and proudly. :D

          • Really Kimmy, I would say that if you have something like that around when you have kids, you should treat it like a loaded gun, and make sure it's under lock and key.

          • Yeah, I can tell you a disturbing story about two little boys who found one of their dad's pr0n stash, and after looking at some of the polaroids, one said "Who's the chick with the big boobs?", and the other one said "Dude, that's your *mom*!"

            The kid's still seeing a therapist.

          • I wouldn't mind doing a cast of my boobs so he can keep in his closet or something. I think that you can do thinks like that and still keep it private.

          • No, no DRB document it for yourself!!! Not to be shared with others... Those things are called privates for a reason :-D

          • LOL. I read that Melanie Griffith actually did a "statue" (?) of Antonio Banderas penis. I thought at the time that was a fabulous idea. All I need is the guy and hopefully he has it going on down there and I am so doing that.

          • lol, KQ...that's JP you're talkin' to...you know he is just playin' stupid again. He can't help himself sometimes.

          • Do you dine blindfolded?
            Do you buy a car without checking it out?
            Do you buy a house without a home inspection?
            Do you marry a woman without making sure she's a woman?

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